How to Start Pilates at Home
How to Start Pilates at Home (Without Guilt, Confusion, or Overwhelm)

If you’ve ever thought about starting Pilates at home but felt stuck, you’re not alone.
Most moms don’t hesitate because they’re lazy or unmotivated. They hesitate because they’re thinking:
- I don’t know what I’m doing.
- How will I find the time?
- Is it selfish to take time for myself?
As a certified Pilates instructor who has worked with moms for over a decade, and as a mom myself, I want you to know this:
You don’t need to have it all figured out to start Pilates at home. You just need a place to begin.
What’s Really Holding Moms Back from Starting
When moms ask me how to start Pilates at home, the question is rarely about the exercises. It’s about uncertainty and guilt.
Guilt for taking time away from family. Guilt for not doing “enough.” And fear of doing something wrong.
The truth is: prioritizing yourself doesn’t take away from your family, it strengthens you for them.
The Biggest Mistake Beginners Make
The biggest mistake I see is trying to piece together Pilates from random free videos online.
There are good free workouts out there. But when anyone can upload a video, claim certification, and label it Pilates, it becomes incredibly hard to know what’s safe, effective, or even truly Pilates.
If you were learning something new in real life, you’d want guidance from someone qualified, experienced, and trustworthy. Pilates is no different.
So look for an instructor who:
- Is certified
- Has taught in-person for several years
- Knows how to cue clearly and compassionately
- Feels like someone you’d actually enjoy spending time with in-person
That’s exactly why I created my
on-demand Pilates membership, so moms can follow thoughtful, expert-led workouts without second-guessing what’s safe or effective.

What You Actually Need to Start Pilates at Home
You don’t need a reformer.
You don’t need fancy props.
You don’t need an hour of uninterrupted time.
You need:
- A mat
- Instruction from a certified Pilates instructor
- A willingness to do something for yourself
Everything else is optional.
Why Short Workouts Work Best (Especially at First)
Short workouts are perfect for beginners, and honestly, for busy moms at any stage.
They:
- Reduce the chance of overdoing it
- Require less mental energy
- Fit into real life
- Create momentum instead of burnout
Even 20 minutes can leave you thinking, “Thank goodness I did something for myself today.”
That feeling matters.
Having access to short, guided Pilates workouts you can do from home makes consistency far more realistic during busy seasons of motherhood.
You’re Not Really Working Out Alone
One mom once told me she hated working out at home because she needed an instructor “watching” her.
After a few weeks of doing my follow-along classes, she said something that stuck with me: “It feels like we’re doing this together.”
Seeing me struggle with certain exercises or adjust when things didn’t go as planned made the experience feel human, not isolating.
That sense of connection is often what makes consistency possible.
What to Look for in an Online Pilates Program
Not all online Pilates is created equal.
For safe and effective at-home Pilates, look for:
- Proper certification
- Years of in-person teaching experience
- Clear cueing and thoughtful programming
Teaching Pilates online is its own skill and it works best when it’s built on a foundation of real-life teaching and understanding real bodies.
What About Kids, Interruptions, and Missed Workouts?
They’re part of the process, at every level.
Interruptions don’t mean your workout “doesn’t count.”
Shortened sessions aren’t failures.
Missed days don’t erase progress.
Doing something will always be better than doing nothing.
The Foundations That Matter Most When Starting
When moms start Pilates with me, I focus heavily on:
- Breathing through movement
- Connecting the core to every exercise
- Building awareness and control
These foundations allow your body to feel supported, strong, and safe. They open the door to more advanced Pilates down the road.
How I Recommend Moms Begin
If you’re brand new to Pilates, I always suggest starting with a guided program where the roadmap is already laid out.
It removes guesswork, builds confidence, and helps consistency happen naturally.
Inside my on-demand membership, I also share a weekly recommended schedule so you always know what to press play on next.
The Most Important First Step
Before you even roll out a mat, be honest with yourself.
You want more than just getting through the day.
You want to feel strong, confident, and connected to yourself again.
That why is what will bring you back to the mat, even on busy days.
And when you show up for yourself, you’ll likely find you show up even better for the people you love most.
If you’re ready to start Pilates in a way that feels supportive and doable, my
on-demand Pilates library was designed specifically for moms starting right where they are.







